The subject of Family has been on my mind for nearly 20 years now! Hmmm, I wonder why, maybe because that’s when my family fell apart!
I know that my Wife did all she could, as did I! Our families, I question if some could have done more than to say, “Just get a job ($6 an hour) and it will all work out”! Well, $500+ a month rent for a Family of 4 and a 8 digit calculator settles the issue of, “It Will All Work Out”!
This Post kinda relates to my Personal Experience when it comes to marriage, but I think it relates to far more people than Me?
Can you imagine asking your son or daughter to give up thinking of Grandma or Grandpa as grandma or Grandpa?
Have you ever thought of replacing a Brother or Sister because they did something so terrible that society can’t accept? When a Brother gets blamed for something, you simply side step the unmerited Blame others place on Him when you encounter them! You don’t sell him out!
It seems like every time we turn the TV on we here of people doing terrible things and their mothers and Siblings are right there declaring how they can’t believe their family member did this or that…?
I have a friend that did something he, and at this time is still in jail for it! I recoil at the thought of his actions, but he is still a Friend!!! That will never change!!!
All Children generally Know who their Mother and Father is, as well as their Brothers and Sisters! This statement is a Blanket Statement: All Children will never replace their Mother, Father, brothers or Sisters with others!!!
How do we replace our Spouses???
First off! It seems to me most American (and European) marriages (as mine) were consummated before the Vows were taken! That in itself is what the Bible classifies as a Male having a concubine!
But once the Vows are taken the Male and female become Family!
If the Two do not Produce children, and end in Divorce there is only damage to the TWO!
But when a Male and Female bring Children into this WORLD, the female may be a Concubine but the Two are Family!
Then the Bible is Clear, Some are forced to Leave their Wives (or Concubines) because they should have never married them!?
Come on, A Spouse is no more replaceable than a parent, child, uncle or Aunt! I wonder why everyone is psychotic!!! Hmmm?
Male or Female, when they took their Marriage Vows, it was till “Death Do They Part”!
Forgive each other of Adultery and take back your homes Biblically, immediately!!!